So many people think about the relationship they have with their other half, or the relationship they wish they had, that they neglect the most important relationship. The relationship they have with themselves! You can’t have a real quality relationship with anybody else if the relationship with yourself isn’t on point. Here’s how to improve it:
Be Kind to Yourself
The first step is to be kind to yourself. If you’re going to be your own friend, you need to speak to yourself in your head like you would a friend. Don’t put yourself down or say anything to yourself that you wouldn’t tell a friend. This can take practice. Whenever you know a negative thought is about to enter your head, push it away. Eventually, it’ll become second nature. Life is so much better when you become your own friend! If you make a mistake or do something you’re not happy with, don’t beat yourself up. This won’t help matters at all. Being kind to yourself is the way to go!
Developing yourself is very important. Why should we stop doing this after school? Continue learning new skills, reading books, and doing things you want to do. Focus on developing yourself and you’ll become a well rounded individual. Learning should never, ever stop. It’ll also help you to increase your confidence!
Make the Most of Yourself
When you make the most of yourself, you instantly feel better. Take a long shower. Get up earlier to do your hair the way you like it. Use Sculptra to make your face look flawless. You’ll feel more confident this way and it’ll shine through in all of your interactions.
Do Things You Enjoy
Do things you enjoy. You’ll feel happier and more fulfilled. Don’t spend your time watching mindless TV programs or scrolling through Facebook. See friends, read books. Paint pictures. Go running. Build model bridges. Remember to take time to just relax and do nothing too. Do things you enjoy and remind yourself that it’s a brilliant time to be alive!
If you want to improve your relationship with yourself, you need to be independent. You need to feel comfortable spending time alone. When you can do that, this is when you know you have a great relationship with yourself! Being with someone and loving them is one thing, but depending on them is another. You don’t need to depend on them to love them! Learn to become your own hero. Love yourself like Kanye loves Kanye. You are the most important person in your life!
Start using these tips right now and you should find that your relationship with yourself improves almost instantly. The longer you practice, the better it’ll be. The better your relationship, the happier you’ll be whether you’re in a relationship or alone. You’ll find live just gets so much better! Can you vouch for this? Or are you eager to try it and see what happens? Leave any comments or thoughts below!
Thanks again Sara for the post!! Happy weekend all!!!