Thanks Sara for another great post. This one is about knowing when divorce is really your best option.
Most people would like to think they are going to remain in love with their partner for their entire life. However, things sometimes get in the way of that, and so it’s important we all know when it’s time to call it a day. Of course, there are usually many different things to consider, and that is especially the case if there are children involved. Even so, the little ones don’t need to hear their mommy and daddy constantly arguing, as that could affect them significantly in later life.
You know it’s time to get a divorce when…
You are no longer in love
Staying in a loveless relationship is bad for everyone involved. Your kids are going to pick up on the problem, and you could find yourself feeling miserable very often.
You argue every day
All couples argue from time to time. However, when those arguments become the main form of communication, things need to change.
You have lost the spark
There must be a spark if you want a happy relationship. Over time, the way you feel about each other can change. When that spark disappears, both of you will start looking for it in other places.
You feel trapped
Often we see that one partner in a relationship can begin to feel trapped after a few years. If you are made for each other, that shouldn’t happen. If it does happen, it’s a sign that you need to move on.
I hope you will now feel a little more confident about ending your marriage if it is not working out as expected. Don’t worry about becoming yet another statistic. Your happiness trumps everything else.